| Action | Why it matters | |--------|----------------| | | Use only official app stores and reputable services. Avoid unknown “click‑to‑call” links. | | Never share personal data | Name, address, bank details, or ID numbers are never needed for a legitimate adult chat. | | Set a budget & stick to it | Decide in advance if you’ll pay anything; treat any request for money as a red flag. | | Use disposable payment methods | If you do decide to spend, use a prepaid card or a wallet you can delete after the transaction. | | Take screenshots | Capture any threatening or harassing messages before you block the contact. | | Report | Most platforms have a “Report Abuse” button. If you feel threatened or believe illegal activity is occurring, contact local cyber‑crime units. | | Educate peers | Share your experience (anonymously if needed) so friends are aware of the scam patterns. |
| ✅ | Checklist item | |----|-----------------| | ☐ | The website/app is from a known, verified source (official store, verified domain). | | ☐ | No personal identifying information is requested. | | ☐ | The service clearly states it is 18+ and provides an age‑verification step. | | ☐ | Any payment method is traceable (e.g., credit card, bank transfer) you have a disposable prepaid card you can discard afterwards. | | ☐ | You have read reviews from independent sources (forums, consumer watchdog sites). | | ☐ | You have set a strict budget and a time limit for the interaction. | | ☐ | You know how to block and report the contact if the conversation turns threatening. | | Action | Why it matters | |--------|----------------|